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Validation Detox

Validation Detox11. Okt.1 Std. 06 Min.

<p>Are you dating, or are you collecting proof that somebody wants you? This week I&#39;ll tackle two questions. The first is about how to not get too attached in the talking stage, and what to do if you keep getting ghosted after good dates. Before I get to those, I share some wicked perspectives on reality and how I cut off my own validation: no story views, no likes, no casual dating, no DMing. It&#39;s pretty wild that right now I don&#39;t have a single person I&#39;m interested in. I might have ADHD, but I don&#39;t believe in it, and that&#39;s a good way to describe this episode.</p><p><br></p><p>Ready to break the pattern, apply to work with me: <a href="https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application</a></p><p><br></p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Moody In a Transition</p><p>02:04 Arguing About Purpose At A Dinner Table</p><p>18:16 Cutting Off The Validation</p><p>27:58 I Sat In Stillness</p><p>35:15 Talking Stage Without Getting Attached</p><p>50:36 Ghosted Even When The Date Was Good</p>