
← Inner Confidence Podcast21. Okt. · 13 Min.
Dating Apps or Approaching Women? Which One Actually Works in 2026? ( Ep 339 )
<p><strong>Apply to the Inner Confidence Community: </strong>https://www.innerconfidence.com/community</p><p><strong>Robbie's Texting Course:</strong> https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting</p><p><br></p><p>───────────────────────────</p><p><br></p><p>Most guys pick one, the apps or approaching and whichever one they pick, they end up stuck, because each one on its own is missing half of what you need.</p><p><br></p><p>The apps are a texting gym. When a girl matches you, she's already said yes to something, so if you can't turn the match into a date, it's your texting. I break down the four mistakes that kill most chats: sending more than she does, running an interview, waiting too long to set it up, and asking instead of telling. "Would you maybe want to grab a drink sometime?" is a job application. "What's your week look like? I'm taking you out for drinks" is a man with a plan.</p><p><br></p><p>Approaching is a confidence gym. It kills the pedestal, makes rejection boring, and teaches you to lead, which is exactly what's missing on most app dates.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Your assignment: </strong>set up your profile, get five conversations going, and do three approaches this week.</p><p><br></p><p>───────────────────────────</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Robbie:</strong></p><p>Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/</p><p>TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer</p><p>YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence</p>