
← Inner Confidence Podcast28. Okt. · 12 Min.
Read Her Mixed Signals Like a Pro ( Ep 340 )
<p>Apply to the Inner Confidence Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community</p><p><br></p><p>_________________________________</p><p><br></p><p>A girl told one of my guys she doesn't kiss on the first date. Twenty minutes later she was all over him in the elevator. She wasn't lying. She was telling him how she wants to be seen, not the rules for the night, and if he'd taken her literally he would have gone home with a hug and a "no chemistry."</p><p><br></p><p>This one is for guys who are getting dates and then losing them because they take everything she says literally. Real client stories: the law student who said "you're 10 years older, I'm probably not interested" and kissed him goodnight two hours later, "just as friends," the boyfriend line, what "I'm terrified" means in a text, and why the ick is way overblown.</p><p><br></p><p>It works both ways too. Watching what she does means listening when her body says no. If she pulls away, you back off, and when she says no, you stop. The guy who reads her is the least pushy guy in the room.</p><p><br></p><p>I finish with the 5-step method: let rule-sounding lines pass, yes-and the comments meant to rattle you, trust her body and her time, stop spiraling over single moments, and lead.</p><p><br></p><p>_________________________________</p><p><br></p><p>Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/</p><p>YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence</p>