3 Reflective Questions to Determine if You Are Showing Up as an Opponent or Teammate in Your Marriage?: Episode 452

As the holidays arrive, we wanted to set you up for success. We see it every year: this is a make it or break it time for couples. The stress piles up, patience runs thin, and couples end up fighting like opponents instead of simply arguing like teammates.

We want you two to stay on the same team. So we wrote out a list of reflective questions that will stick with you and leave you both feeling more love and connection as you go into the new year.

In this episode, Jocelyn walks you through four of them to ask yourself, and to send to your partner. Are you being a source of encouragement or being critical? Are you jumping to negative conclusions or assuming the best? Are you interrupting and saying things that hurt, or taking turns and saying things that help? Are you modeling division or unity for your kids? You'll get a quick dose of motivation, a few perspective shifts, and a clear sense of what to change before the new year instead of after.

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