Why Asking Better Questions Changes Everything With Dr. J.R. Briggs

What if one of the most important skills for following Jesus is something we rarely study: asking good questions?

Michael Easley sits down with J.R. Briggs, author of The Art of Asking Better Questions, to explore how our questions shape our relationships, spiritual maturity, and conversations with others.

J.R. explains why thoughtful questions are an expression of hospitality, how “shift responses” can turn conversations back toward ourselves, and why curiosity, wisdom, humility, and courage are essential for asking better questions.

The conversation also moves into a deeper question: What do we ask God when life hurts? J.R. shares a framework for moving from “Why did this happen?” toward asking what God may be forming in us through difficulty.

Most importantly, Michael and J.R. examine the questions of Jesus. Jesus asked more than 300 questions, often using questions to invite people into deeper reflection rather than simply giving them answers.

If you want to become a better listener, deepen your relationships, grow in spiritual maturity, or learn to engage people with greater curiosity and humility, this conversation will give you practical ways to start.

CHAPTERS

00:00 — Why We Should Study Jesus’ Questions

01:44 — Meet J.R. Briggs

03:56 — Living With Your Arrows Pointing Out

05:18 — Stop Asking Lazy Questions

06:48 — Shift Responses vs. Support Responses