The Danger of Raising Boys Through a Screen featuring Bill Winchester

Bill Winchester is back on the show, and one word kept coming to mind as I read his story: builder. He started with backyard tree forts, married his high school sweetheart Christy at 21, raised three kids, and helped build the church his family worshiped in and the school his kids attended. Somewhere along the way he realized the most important thing he'd ever build was men, which led him to create the Dangerously Good Men rite of passage in Bend, Oregon, and Improving Grounds, where men gather around a fire on Saturday mornings.

We talked about raising sons in a digital world, why despair and loneliness are rising among men, and the difference between protecting your son and preparing him. Bill walked through the liminal space between boyhood and manhood, the six core values behind his framework, and the men of significance every young man needs in his corner. If you're a dad raising a boy who is nearing his teens and you want to send him into manhood supported instead of unprepared, this conversation is for you.

Timeline Summary

[1:01] Larry welcomes Bill Winchester back and asks about the rite of passage he created for his oldest son

[3:18] How Dangerously Good Men serves boys 12 to 15, and a father and son who came full circle after four years

[5:59] Larry introduces Bill: a builder, a father of three, and a man helping fathers lead sons into manhood

[9:22] Raising sons in a digital world, the despair among men, and living in 3D in a 2D world

[12:46] Why fathers must shift from protecting their sons to preparing them

[18:00] The liminal space: the threshold between boyhood and manhood

[19:53] How absent fathers, latchkey kids, and screens left young men unprepared

[22:34] Why anything that can give you everything can take it all away

[24:16] Turning the SOS into shared strength and building community before the crisis